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Between Chennai to Kerala



On one of our trips to India, I insisted on seeing a different side of the country—not the airports or hotel lobbies, but the land in between.

I wanted to see the landscape. So instead of flying, we hired a four-wheel drive and travelled by road, driving all the way from Chennai to Kerala. Somewhere along that journey, we stopped.

It was not a planned destination. Just a stretch of road bordered by wide paddy fields, green and unhurried, moving gently with the wind. I stood there with my husband and daughter, watching the workers in the field, bent over, feet sunk into wet earth, hands moving steadily through the plants.

This was not a picturesque stop meant for travellers.​



This was work. Ordinary, repetitive, necessary work. Rice has always been a constant in my life. Breakfast, lunch, dinner. Steamed, fried, spiced, plain. It appears on the plate so reliably that I have rarely paused to think about how it gets there.

It is simply there. Standing at the edge of the field disrupted that assumption. We spoke briefly with some of the workers. There was no dramatic exchange, no attempt to frame their labour as heroic or tragic. Just simple conversation about the land, the season, and the work that needed to be done.

Perhaps that was what stayed with me, the ordinariness of it all, and how far removed it was from the way most of us encounter food. Watching the slow, deliberate process, it became clear that rice does not arrive by accident.

It requires preparation, patience, time, and a willingness to accept that much of the outcome remains beyond human control:- rain, water, weather, and the discipline of waiting.

I was reminded of a Malay proverb I have heard since childhood: “Ikut resmi padi, semakin tunduk semakin berisi.” Like the paddy, the fuller it becomes, the more it bends.

Not out of weakness, but because weight demands humility. The plant does not stand upright in pride when it is full it bows under its own abundance. In that moment, the proverb stopped feeling like inherited wisdom meant to be repeated politely. It felt observed.

The workers bent over the fields mirrored the plants themselves—labour and sustenance intertwined, neither seeking attention, both essential. I did not walk away feeling enlightened. But I did walk away more aware of how casually I had treated something so fundamental.

Rice stopped feeling automatic. Since then, every plate of rice carries a quiet reminder not of sentimentality or reverence, but of connection. Between land and labour. Between what we consume and what we rarely see. Between abundance and the humility that should accompany it.


December 2025




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